有人常說玩具選擇越少，孩子才會主動去玩，其實，我反而覺得重點不在於玩具的數量多寡，重點在於玩具的相容性。
如果玩具很多，但是玩法非常的單一，自然而然被使用的機率就非常的少。舉例來說，磁力片，用途就非常廣泛，被小孩寵幸的次數就會自然而然比較高，因為可以搭配很多東西使用，所以即使磁力片數量很多，也不會讓孩子覺得沒興趣。
🙋♂️ 那要怎麼樣選擇玩具呢？
盡量挑選「開放式玩具」，即使從寶寶開始就可以引導孩子減少聲光玩具的刺激，利用簡單的開放式玩具，增加幾何還有堆疊及手眼協調的訓練，這些都可以是開放式玩具提供的價值。
像我賣玩具的，玩具相對非常的多，但是因為相容性很大， A玩具可以和B玩具一起玩，而且玩法就變得更廣泛，也更加的深入，自然而然孩子就會花很多時間在獨立玩樂的這件事情上面。
當然每個月還是要適時地去更換架上的玩具，做替換更新，讓孩子能夠有一點新鮮感，也是一個很好的方法。
當家裡的開放式玩具越來越多，自然而然就會訓練孩子在獨立玩樂這件事情上面的時間越來越長，不過一開始必須還是要家長陪同，起了頭之後就讓孩子自由發揮！
‼️另外要注意到一點就是，擺得很漂漂亮亮的玩具或是佈置得很美的玩具，不見得孩子就給你買單，減少自己的設置的時間成本，重點應該是擺在孩子最後投入的程度。
每一次總是有媽媽問我，怎麼樣陪玩？為什麼你總是這麼的有創意呢？其實，慢慢地累積陪玩經驗及了解自己孩子的喜好及興趣，加上自己也必須要享受在玩玩具的過程之中，自然而然孩子就會感受得到。
新的一年，記得每天只要花10到15分鐘「專心」的陪孩子玩，就會有不一樣的變化喔！
想了解更多陪玩或是引導的方式嗎？或是在陪玩的過程中有遇到任何的困難嗎？底下留言告訴我，都可以盡量的為你解答喔！❤️
People often say that the fewer toys a child has, the more they will play. But in my experience, it’s not really about the number of toys—it’s about their compatibility and versatility.
If a child has many toys but they can only be played with in one specific way, those toys often get ignored. On the other hand, toys with multiple uses tend to be played with more frequently. For example, magnetic tiles can be combined in endless ways, making them a favorite among kids. Even if you have a large number of them, they don’t lose their appeal because they can be mixed and matched with other toys.
How to Choose the Right Toys?
🔹 Go for open-ended toys – Instead of flashy, sound-and-light toys, choose simple toys that encourage creativity, problem-solving, and hand-eye coordination from an early age.
🔹 Prioritize toy compatibility – If Toy A can be combined with Toy B, it naturally extends playtime and encourages deeper, more creative play. This helps kids engage in independent play for longer periods.
🔹 Rotate toys regularly – Switching out toys on display keeps things fresh and exciting. Even familiar toys feel new when they’re reintroduced after a break!
As your collection of open-ended toys grows, so will your child’s ability to play independently for longer periods. However, in the beginning, parental involvement is key—start by playing together, and then let your child take the lead!
A Beautifully Arranged Playroom Doesn’t Always Mean More Playtime
A perfectly organized toy shelf might look amazing, but that doesn’t guarantee kids will be interested. Instead of spending too much time on presentation, focus on how engaged your child is during playtime.
I often get asked:
🗨️ "How do you play with your child? Where do you get all your creative ideas?"
The answer? Experience and connection. As you spend more time playing together, you’ll naturally understand your child’s interests and preferences. Plus, when you enjoy playing, your child can sense it too!
New Year, New Playtime Habits!
Start by setting aside just 10-15 minutes a day of fully focused, distraction-free playtime with your child. You’ll be surprised at how much of a difference it makes!
Need tips on guided play or facing challenges during playtime? Drop a comment below—I’d love to help! 😊✨
